k-k-kick it
This morning, while rolling around in bed, I had a mini light bulb go off in my head.
The phrases “I like to be the little spoon,” or “I like to be the big spoon,” are all wrong. Big spoons and little spoons don’t even fit with each other. Spoons have to be equally sized to fit perfectly together. vvv The mental image I had in my head this morning vvv 
Find the right spoon, my friends. Find the right spoon.